||Emotional intelligence (EQ) means knowing how to transform emotional pain into spiritual gain. Children develop their EQ by seeing how you face irritations, frustrations and losses - with faith , courage, humility, patience and compassion. Biofeedback research shows that the use of the 39 victory cards mentioned in this book calm brain waves and reduces anxiety, anger and depression. By talking victory language from the time they are born, your children are less likely to suffer from mental disorders or addictive behaviors. When you demonstrate emotional self-regulation during stressful times, you and your family members will feel like spiritual champs. This is the basis of mental health.